Goals

I've just had a two hour session of goal setting with my life coach. I'm a bit of a trial to the Lady i think, because i keep insisting that what i want is a plan - the goal is a plan. But she keeps trying to convince me that we're making the plan, what i need to know is what i want the plan for. So I have three things i need to figure out:

1. Canada
How will i know when its time to go and how will i know when i'm there. I'm supposed to think of something, some place, some smell, some feeling that will tell me, aha! I'm here in the right place doing what i want.

2. What will make me feel focused now, every day, and doing what i want.
Is it writing for 2 hours every day, or doing something creative every day?

3. Fun/Friends
This was a shocker, because i thought the problem was that i was focussing too much on fun and friends, but the lady thinks i'm in danger of becoming insular. And i have to admit she's right. I'm not doing what i want to do professionally, but i'm not having that much fun either. I'm not allowing fun until i do the other things first. So i need some balance.

I need to suck the marrow out of the funny bone of edinburgh.